This statement has stayed with me since I heard it from my spiritual father and mentor Bishop David Oyedepo.
Stop looking for who to blame for what is not working in your life. One difficult thing for us to do as humans is to see ourselves as the fault or the problem, because it is so easy to pass the blame on other people
Things are not working out as planned, then sit down and ask yourself what am I doing wrong, or what am I doing that I should not be doing, or what should I stop doing, who should I stop following, watching and so on.
Try this and you will naturally experience tremendous progress in your life.